We hope that all of our families, donors, and clients are safe. We have resumed our M-F schedule.  All recipient and client visits are by appointment only, including tank returns. We will post updates to our hours here. Please call us with questions or to schedule at 510.841.1858. Telephone hours are 9:30-4:30 PST.

We appreciate your continued support. If you are able, and appreciate our one-of-a-kind, ethical and inclusive, non-profit family-building program, please consider a tax-deductible donation to ensure others can also use TSBC to build their families.

We recognize that building your family in the midst of COVID can add additional challenges. Explore our “Getting Support” page for resources that can help, including a list of mental health providers that specialize in fertility. 

Helpful Websites

Midwives, Home IUI, Fertility Services  ~  Fertility Resources  ~  Family Building & Parent Preparation   ~   Male Infertility  ~  Adoption  ~  Legal Resources

Midwives, In-Home IUI Inseminations and Fertility Services (Greater Bay Area)

Fertility Resources

  • Aimee Eyvazzadeh, M.D. Fertility Specialist in Bay Area, California
  • Alta Bates In Vitro Fertilization Program Comprehensive fertility services: IUI, IVF, In-house Egg Donors, Surrogates, ICSI/MESA/PGD, Egg Freezing, Fertility Preservation with Cancer, Pregnancy Losses, Ovulation Induction, Surgery. Educational website.
  • American College of Nurse Midwives National database of nurse midwives, plus links related to pregnancy, medical issues, and parenting.
  • Building Healthy Donor Conceived Families  An excellent primer to read anytime during the process of trying to conceive, during pregnancy or after your child is here. Authored by psychosocial fertility expert, Madeline Licker Feingold, PhD.
  • American Society for Reproductive Medicine Helpful guidelines and fact sheets related to every aspect of reproduction from technology to psychosocial education. ASRM’s research journal, Fertility & Sterility, focuses primarily on medical and psychosocial aspects of fertility. Also see ASRM's Mental Health Professional Group, which specializes in education, psychological support and well-being. See also Ethics Committee reports:
    • Access to fertility services by transgender persons (2015)
    • Access to fertility treatment by gays, lesbians and unmarried persons (2013)
    • Informing offspring of their conception by gamete donation (2013)
  • At Home Fertility These SF Bay Area-based midwives offer in-home intrauterine inseminations to women in Alameda, Contra Costa, Marin, San Francisco, and San Mateo counties.
  • Awakenings Birth Services  SF Bay Area-based midwives offering prenatal, birth and post-partum care.
  • Bay Area Home Birth Collective Collective of midwives offering prenatal, birth, and postpartum care, as well as classes and support groups. Serving the San Francisco Bay Area. (415) 273-5185
  • Birthways Childbirth preparation classes and referrals within the SF Bay Area​
  • Choice Moms For single women who are choosing to build a family. Resources, events, podcasts and blogs geared toward the choice mom community.
  • East Bay Homebirth Midwifery We are committed to and skilled in providing emotionally and physically safe space for women who choose to give birth in the intimacy and comfort of their home.
  • European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology   ESHRE’s research journal, Human Reproduction, is an excellent research publication which covers both medical and psychosocial issues related to fertility.
  • Fertile Hope Non-profit organization dedicated to helping male and female cancer patients faced with infertility.
  • Fertile Thoughts  Resources, links, and bulletin boards related to fertility, adoption, surrogacy, and parenting.
  • Fertility Plus Articles and resources on trying to conceive.
  • Gamete Donation: Findings on Disclosure and Anonymous Donation  Good resource for when you're considering whether to use a donor in our Identity-Release® Program and/or when you're trying to decide whether and when to talk to your future child about your family's donor origins. Based on empirical and clinical data. Authored by psychosocial fertility expert, Madeline Licker Feingold, PhD (2013).
  • INCIID International Council on Infertility Information Dissemination. Consumer-targeted infertility information with fact sheets and up-to-date reproductive health news.
  • Infertility 911  Find out complete information about female and male infertility, their symptoms and causes. Get to know how infertility is diagnosed and treated.
  • Infertility Network Non-profit organization offering education and support related to infertility. Based in Canada.
  • Integramed Links to US Fertility Clinics-contact one in your area.
  • Internet Health Resources Group   An online resource with a range of resources: legal, medical, social support, books.
  • Laurel Fertility Care  They offer only the latest assisted reproductive technologies (ART) supported by our nationally accredited embryology laboratory, resulting in excellent success rates.
  • LGBTQ Family Building Grants Family building grants and financial resources from the Family Equality Council.
  • MAIA Midwifery and Fertility Services  Internationally renowned experts in LGBTQ family building, MAIA Midwifery provides comprehensive fertility consultations for all families conceiving via donor insemination, including individualized insemination timing plans, holistic fertility enhancement, and a balanced approach to infertility.  Their reported "over 40" success rate of 33% is far above industry standards.
  • Mental Health Professional Group  The American Society for Reproductive Medicine's Mental Health Professional Group (MHPG) is to dedicated to enhancing knowledge and understanding of psychological and emotional aspects of reproductive health.
  • Natural Resources SF Bay Area-based retail store and educational center providing resources, referrals, and classes focused on pregnancy, childbirth and parenting.
  • Open Path: The Family Building Resource for Northern California   The mission of Open Path is to provide timely, compassionate and a balanced educated perspective to all. We provide referrals to screened specialists and professionals and offer a place to connect, find support and share valuable experiences.
  • Pacific Fertility Centers   Site includes good fertility information and links to other resources.
  • Parents Via Egg Donation   Information for the parent or the parent-to-be including secure message boards, resource information and reading list.
  • Path2Parenthood An inclusive organization committed to helping people create their families by providing leading-edge outreach programs and timely educational information.Extensive website resources.
  • Refuge Midwifery (Pennsylvania/South Jersey) Fertility care that spans from individuals just beginning to explore their conception options to those seeking holistic fertility support to regulate cycle and determine optimal conception timing and families ready to conceive through IUI at home. Offers home birth midwifery care - spanning from the first prenatal visit to labor, birth, and the first six weeks postpartum. Services are offered from a Health At Every Size (HAES) perspective, and specializes in working with individuals who have PCOS and transgender people who have previously used hormone affirming therapy. 
  • Reproductive Science Centers of the Bay Area   Great Resource. Fertility services. Site includes general information about reproductive technology.
  • UCSF Center for Reproductive Health   Fertility services, including IUI, IVF, ICSI, and donor egg program. Fresh sperm inseminations with husband’s or known donor’s sperm. Inseminations seven days a week. San Francisco, CA (415) 353-7475

Family Building & Parent Preparation

  • Bananas  Provides comprehensive information and referrals to child care and children’s services in Alameda, Albany, Berkeley, Emeryville, Oakland, and Piedmont. Oakland (510) 658-7353
  • Building Healthy Donor Conceived Families  An excellent primer to read anytime during the process of trying to conceive, during pregnancy or after your child is here. Authored by psychosocial fertility expert, Madeline Licker Feingold, PhD.
  • Center for Family Building Offering guidance on your fertility or adoption journey, information to address parenting concerns or support through surrogacy. Online groups and coaching.
  • Choice Moms For single women who are choosing to build a family. Resources, events, podcasts and blogs geared toward the choice mom community.
  • COLAGE, Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere. Support and advocacy organization for children of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and trans* identified parents. See especially: Donor Insemination Guide (written by and for donor-conceived children/teens/adults) and Kids of Trans Resource Guide
  • Cheryl Deaner, LMFT Resource for considering building a family through donor conception. Cheryl is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist In 1997. Cheryl founded and served as the first executive director of Our Family Coalition, a non-profit organization serving the needs of LGBT families.
  • Donor Conception Network  Non-profit organization offering education and support related to family formation through donor conception. Includes excellent resources for talking to your child about their donor origins, and book for donors on talking to their children about being a donor. Based in the UK.
  • Donor Conception Support Group   International organization (based in Australia) offering support, information, and resources.
  • Donor Sibling Registry  Supporting donor-conceived families, donor-conceived people and donors. Many discussions about how parents handle disclosure.
  • Dori Kavanaugh, LCSW Specializing in Infertility, adoption, and complex family building. (917) 923-5497
  • EMPOWERING SOLO MOMS EVERYWHERE (ESME) dedicated to Solo Moms who face the challenge of solo parenting in a society that provides little help or guidance.
  • Ethics Committee reports and Fact sheets from the American Society for Reproductive Medicine Every aspect of assisted reproduction from technology to psychosocial education. ASRM’s research journal, Fertility & Sterility, focuses primarily on medical and psychosocial aspects of fertility. Also see ASRM's Mental Health Professional Group, which specializes in education, psychological support and well-being.
    • Access to fertility services by transgender persons (2015)
    • Access to fertility treatment by gays, lesbians and unmarried persons (2013)
    • Informing offspring of their conception by gamete donation (2013)
  • Family Equality Council  Works to ensure equality for LGBT families by building community, changing hearts and minds, and advancing social justice for all families.
  • Madeline Feingold, PhD  Psychosocial Fertility Expert. Excellent resource to help you consider long term implications of building a family through donor conception. For all family types. 
  • Beth Jaeger-Skigen, LCSW  Support groups for people considering family building through donor conception.
  • Mombian-Resources for LGBT Families For lesbian moms
  • Our Family Coalition  Sponsors events and education for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered families and friends in the SF Bay Area.
  • Parents Place  A full-service family resource center offering workshops, classes, and support groups to families in San Francisco, Palo Alto, San Rafael, and Santa Rosa.
  • Single Mothers by Choice  National support and information network for single women choosing motherhood.
  • SprOUT Family A gender and sexually diverse non profit startup that supports LGBTQ people through the family building process.
  • Talking with Children about Sperm or Egg Donation   An excellent primer when thinking about talking to your children about the family's donor origins. Authored by psychosocial fertility experts, Patricia Mendell, LCSW & Jean Benward, LCSW (2010).
  • The Rainbow Babies  The Rainbow Babies vision is to provide a central area for general information on the many aspects of GLBT pregnancies and parenting. We will also provide space for parents or would-be parents to share their stories about their respective paths to parenthood.
  • [Kids of] Trans Resource Guide: "Plenty of transgender people have children, but there are only a few resources available for transgender parents and their families. This guide is the first of its kind, a resource specifically created for and by people with transgender parents..." (p. 4).
  •  Two Lives  A publisher and distributor specializing in books, music, and gifts for LGBT families.
  •  Victorian Assisted Reproductive Treatment Authority (VARTA) has extensive resources on assisted family building and open-identity donation.

Male Infertility

Adoption

Legal Resources

  • Ami Jaeger, Attorney   Private practice. Works with parents, donors, and surrogates. Santa Fe, NM (505) 466-4642
  • The Law Office of Amira Haenbush, Esq. Private practice. Provides legal assistance for assisted reproduction, adoption, co-parenting agreements, parentage orders and guardianship. (323) 813-1199
  • Colleen M. Quinn, Esq.  President, American Academy of Adoption Attorneys & American Academy of Assisted Reproductive Technology Attorney, Adoption & Surrogacy Law Center (804) 285-6253
  • Deborah Wald, Attorney  Private practice in San Francisco. Over ten years experience in lesbian and gay family issues, including sperm and egg donor agreements.
  • Diane Michelsen, MSW, Attorney   Family formation law group. Twenty years experience with adoption and assisted reproduction. Lafayette, CA (925) 945-1880
  • Emily Doskow, Attorney and Mediator  Private practice. Fifteen years offering family services to the LGBT community, including donor agreements and adoption. Oakland (510) 698-4902
  • Jane Hindman, Attorney  Private practice. Experienced in alternative methods of family building. Cupertino (408) 777-8457
  • Lambda Legal: A nonprofit, national organization committed to achieving full recognition of the civil rights of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender people and those with HIV through impact litigation, education and public policy work.
  • Lederman & Beach, Attorneys   Lesbian-owned private practice in San Francisco. Services include co-parent agreements, sperm donor and recipient contracts, powers of attorney, and adoption.
  • National Center for Lesbian Rights National legal and advocacy organization for lesbians and their families offering phone counseling, education, and publications.
  • Nolo Press  Free legal information on key issues affecting same-sex couples.
  • Susan Silber, Attorney  Family law. Lesbian mom herself, working in DC and MD, also licensed in NY. (301) 891-2200
  • Tiffany L. Palmer  Assisted Reproductive Technology Law, Adoption, and Family Law Litigation. (215) 843-6041
  • Yetta Kurland, Attorney  Private practice. Experienced in second-parent adoption and lesbian/gay family issues. New York, NY (212) 253-6911

 

 

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