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Useful Web Sites When You Are Trying to Conceive

Here are some good general links related to fertility, donor insemination, and family-building. Let us know if you have your own recommendations. For a more complete list including local referrals for counselors and therapists and our complete reading list click here

  • Fertility Resources

  • Alternative Families

  • Adoption

  • Legal Resources

  • Sperm Banking and Male Infertility



  • Fertility Resources

    Alta Bates In Vitro Fertilization Program
    http://www.ABivf.com
    Comprehensive fertility services: IUI, IVF, In-house Egg Donors, Surrogacy,
    ICSI/MESA/PGD, Egg Freezing, Fertility Preservation with Cancer, Pregnancy
    Losses, Ovulation Induction, Surgery. Educational website. Same-sex couples
    welcome

    American College of Nurse Midwives
    http://www.midwife.org
    National database of nurse midwives, plus links related to pregnancy, medical issues, and parenting.



    American Society for Reproductive Medicine
    http://www.asrm.org
    Helpful guidelines and fact sheets related to every aspect of reproductive technology. ASRM’s research journal, Fertility & Sterility, focuses primarily on medical aspects of fertility. Also see ASRM's Mental Health Professional Group, which specializes in psychological support and well-being.

    At Home Fertility
    http://www.athomefertility.com
    These SF Bay Area-based midwives offer in-home intrauterine inseminations to women in Alameda, Contra Costa, Marin, San Francisco, and San Mateo counties.

    Awakenings Birth Services
    http://www.awakeningsbirthservices.com/
    SF Bay Area-based midwives offering prenatal, birth and post-partum care.

    Bay Area Homebirth Collective
    http://www.bayareahomebirth.org
    Collective of midwives offering prenatal, birth, and postpartum care, as well as classes and support groups. Serving the San Francisco Bay Area. (415) 273-5185

    Birthways
    http://www.birthways.org
    Childbirth preparation classes and referrals within the SF Bay Area

    Conceive Magazine
    http://conceiveonline.com
    Great resource for everything related to getting pregnant

    European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology
    http://www.eshre.com
    ESHRE’s research journal, Human Reproduction, is an excellent research publication which covers both medical and psychosocial issues related to fertility.

    Fertile Hope
    http://www.fertilehope.org
    Non-profit organization dedicated to helping male and female cancer patients faced with infertility.

    Fertile Thoughts
    http://www.fertilethoughts.net
    Resources, links, and bulletin boards related to fertility, adoption, surrogacy, and parenting.

    Fertility Plus
    http://www.fertilityplus.org
    Articles and resources on trying to conceive.

    INCIID InterNational Council on Infertility Information Dissemination
    http://www.inciid.org
    Consumer-targeted infertility information with fact sheets and up-to-date reproductive health news.

    Infertility 911
    http://www.infertility911.com/
    Find out complete information about female and male
    infertility, their symptoms and causes. Get to know how infertility is
    diagnosed and treated.


    Infertility Network
    http://www.infertilitynetwork.org/
    Non-profit organization offering education and support related to infertility. Based in Canada.

    Integramed
    http://www.integramed.com/inmdweb/
    Links to US Fertility Clinics-contact one in your area

    Internet Health Resources Group
    http://www.ihr.com
    An online resource with a range of resources: legal, medical, social support, books.

    Laurel Fertility Care
    http://www.laurelfertility.com
    They offer only the latest assisted reproductive technologies (ART) supported by our nationally accredited embryology laboratory, resulting in excellent success rates.

    Maia Midwifery
    http://www.maiamidwifery.com/
    These SF Bay Area-based midwives offer fertility counseling, intrauterine inseminations, and support groups especially for lesbian and bisexual women.

    Mental Health Professional Group
    http://www.asrm.org/Professionals/PG-SIG-Affiliated_Soc/MHPG/index.html
    The American Society for Reproductive Medicine's Mental Health Professional Group (MHPG) is to dedicated to enhancing knowledge and understanding of psychological and emotional aspects of reproductive health.

    Miscarriage
    http://www.preventpregnancyloss.org/
    PreventPregnancyLoss is an amazing resource. Founded by author Darci Klein, it includes important information, including seeking testing that may help prevent future losses. For additional useful resources and a message board, see Baby Loss Comfort and SHARE Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support




    Natural Resources
    http://www.naturalresources-sf.com/
    SF Bay Area-based retail store and educational center providing resources, referrals, and classes focused on pregnancy, childbirth and parenting.

    Open Path The Family Building Resource for Northern California
    http://www.youropenpath.org
    The mission of Open Path is to provide timely, compassionate and a balanced educated perspective to all. We provide referrals to screened specialists and professionals and offer a place to connect, find support and share valuable experiences.

    Pacific Fertility Centers
    http://www.infertilitydoctor.com/
    Site includes good fertility information and links to other resources.

    Parents Via Egg Donation
    http://www.parentsviaeggdonation.com
    Information for the parent or the parent-to-be including secure message boards, resource information and reading list.

    Polycystic ovarian disease
    http://www.pcosupport.org/
    Support and informational organization.


    Reproductive Science Centers of the Bay Area
    http://www.rscbayarea.com/
    Site includes general information about reproductive technology.

    UCSF Center for Reproductive Health
    http://www.ucsfivf.org
    Fertility services, including IUI, IVF, ICSI, and donor egg program. Fresh sperm inseminations with husband’s or known donor’s sperm. Inseminations seven days a week. San Francisco, CA (415) 353-7475

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    Alternative Families

    Alternative Family Institute
    http://www.altfamily.org
    Now a program of the Psychological Services Center in Oakland CA.

    Bananas
    http://www.bananasinc.org/
    Provides comprehensive information and referrals to child care and children’s services in Alameda, Albany, Berkeley, Emeryville, Oakland, and Piedmont. Oakland (510) 658-7353

    COLAGE, Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere
    http://www.colage.org
    Support and advocacy organization for children of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered parents.

    Donor Conception Network
    http://www.dcnetwork.org/
    Non-profit organization offering education and support related to family formation through donor conception. Includes excellent resources for talking to your child about their donor origins. Based in the UK.

    Donor Conception Support Group
    http://www.dcsg.org.au
    International organization (based in Australia) offering support, information, and resources.

    Dottie's Magic Pockets
    http://www.pinkpea.com
    Pink Pea is an independent production company who launched the first children's program for kids in lesbian households to provide programming that represents the family lifestyle in a positive way.

    iVillage Pregnancy & Parenting
    http:// parenting.ivillage.com/messageboards
    Includes groups for single women and lesbian parents

    Lesbian Health Research Center
    http://www.lesbianhealthinfo.org
    The official site of UCSF's Lesbian Health Research Center offers lesbians and their medical practitioners information on a variety of health-related topics and includes a section on parenthood.

    Mombian-Resources for LGBT Families
    http://www.mombian.com/resources/index.php
    Sustenance for Lesbian Moms

    Our Family Coalition
    http://www.ourfamily.org/
    Sponsors events for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered families and friends in the SF Bay Area.

    Parents Place
    http://www.parentsplaceonline.org
    A full-service family resource center offering workshops, classes, and support groups to families in San Francisco, Palo Alto, San Rafael, and Santa Rosa.

    Quick Baby Names
    http://www.quickbabynames.com
    Looking for the meaning of names? Need help choosing a baby name? Search Quickbabynames for Top 100 baby names, their meanings, origins, popularity and other information.

    Single Mothers by Choice
    http://www.singlemothersbychoice.com
    National support and information network for single women choosing motherhood.

    The Rainbow Babies
    http://www.therainbowbabies.com/index.html
    The Rainbow Babies vision is to provide a central area for general information on the many aspects of GLBT pregnancies and parenting. We will also provide space for parents or would-be parents to share their stories about their respective paths to parenthood.

    TransParentcy
    http://www.transparentcy.org/resources.htm
    TransParentcy's mission is to support the Transgender Parent, and their advocates (lawyers, mental health professionals, friends, family) by providing information and resources to diffuse and/or disspell the myths about any adverse impact being transgendered/transsexual might have on one's children.

    Two Lives
    http://www.twolives.com
    A publisher and distributor specializing in books, music, and gifts for LGBT families.

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    Adoption

    Adopt International
    http://www.adopt-intl.org
    Private non-profit agency that provides both domestic and international adoption placement services. San Francisco (415) 934-0300

    Adoption Connection
    http://www.adoptionconnection.org
    Non-profit Northern California agency that facilitates open adoptions.

    Family Builders by Adoption
    http://www.familybuilders.org
    Non-profit SF Bay Area agency that trains prospective parents for special needs children.

    Gradstein & Gorman, Attorneys
    http://peninsulatrusts.com/
    Adoption and surrogacy counseling and legal services. Burlingame, Half Moon Bay (800) 922-0777

    Independent Adoption Center
    http://www.adoptionhelp.org
    Non-profit agency that facilitates open adoptions.

    Pact, An Adoption Alliance
    http://www.pactadopt.org
    Non-profit San Francisco organization that facilitates open adoptions of US-born children of color and creates resources and publications related to race and adoption.

    Susan Romer, Adams & Romer, Attorneys
    http://www.1-800-u-adopt-us.com/index.html
    Pioneers in open adoption. San Francisco, CA (415) 643-4523

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    Legal Resources

    Ami Jaeger, Attorney
    http://www.bio-law.com
    Private practice. Works with parents, donors, and surrogates. Santa Fe, NM (505) 466-4642

    Deborah Wald, Attorney
    http://www.waldlaw.net
    Private practice in San Francisco. Over ten years experience in lesbian and gay family issues, including sperm and egg donor agreements.

    Diane Michelsen, MSW, Attorney
    http://www.lodm.com
    Private practice with Shannon Matteson. Twenty years experience with adoption and assisted reproduction. Lafayette, CA (925) 945-1880

    Emily Doskow, Attorney and Mediator
    http://www.emilydoskow.com
    Private practice. Fifteen years offering family services to the LGBT community, including donor agreements and adoption. Berkeley (510) 540-8311



    Jane Hindman, Attorney
    http://www.hindmanlaw.net
    Private practice. Experienced in alternative methods of family building. Cupertino (408) 777-8457

    Lederman & Beach, Attorneys
    http://www.2momslaw.com
    Lesbian-owned private practice in San Francisco. Services include co-parent agreements, sperm donor and recipient contracts, powers of attorney, and adoption.

    Linda Scaparotti, Attorney
    http://www.scaplaw.com
    Private practice in Oakland and San Francisco. Experienced in donor insemination issues including co-parent agreements, donor contracts, and powers of attorney.

    National Center for Lesbian Rights
    http://www.nclrights.org
    National legal and advocacy organization for lesbians and their families offering phone counseling, education, and publications.

    Nolo Press
    http://www.nolo.com/resource.cfm/catID/64C2C325-5DAF-4BC8-B4761409BA0187C3/118/304/190/
    Free legal information on key issues affecting same-sex couples.

    Susan Silber, Attorney
    http://www.sp-law.com
    Family law. Lesbian mom herself, working in DC and MD, also licensed in NY. (301) 891-2200; Silber@SP-Law.com

    Yetta Kurland, Attorney
    http://www.kurlandassociates.com
    Private practice. Experienced in second-parent adoption and lesbian/gay family issues. New York, NY (212) 253-6911

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    Sperm Banking and Male Infertility

    Sperm Bank Directory
    http://www.spermbankdirectory.com
    This national directory site includes information on why and how to bank your sperm.

    Testicular Cancer Information and Support
    http://www.tc-cancer.com
    An informational and support site with online chat forums dedicated to educating and supporting patients with testicular cancer.

    Testicular Cancer Resource Center
    http://tcrc.acor.org
    Information and support related to testicular cancer, the most common cancer for men between the ages of 15 and 35.

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